Living with OCD

After spending thousands of dollars to have my son's teeth fixed, I see his gums inflammed. He won't floss because he can't quit thinking his hands will slip and suddenly the floss will slice through his gums.

His teeth got into the miserable shape they were in because after braces were put on, braces could not be removed for all the fears of how his teeth would look.

Most days he succeeds in hiding all the demons that sometimes jab into his mind. Some days he doesn't and he'll call me five times. Some days he is on top of the world and sometimes the first thing I hear on the other end is that he will drive his car off a cliff.

Somedays he is hysterically funny. There were too many days before he left high school, when I thought he might not make it another day.

Some of our kids have such serious disorders and yet there are still teachers who are more concerned that these same kids keep their lockers and notebooks in order.

I believe all teachers should have to complete training not only for the exceptional child but also for the child with mental issues. Until ALL educators truly get that some kids need more interventions and modifications than others and that we are not going to make them less responsible because we help them, we will continue to see the drop out rate increase.